Saturday, April 7, 2007

Fill in Your Basket

 
Easter Fill In the Blanks

I got this from Dawn who got it from Cin..  And I'm doing it now..  Thanks, girls!

1. My favorite thing in an Easter basket is _____!

Money.  Plastic eggs with money.  No, I've never been so lucky, but now that I'm older and wiser, I know better.  Easter bunney, hand me the cash!  I can buy my own chocolate! 

2. Easter means _____ to me.

The Resurection; God's love; promising of everlasting life; plus can't forget family, kids, coelhas & coelhos (bunnies), the eggs, SPRING, flowers..  It's my favorite time of the year. 

3. The best part of the chocolate Easter bunny is _____.

The ears.   

4. My memories of Easter as a child include_____.

Uncomfortable church clothes--matching dresses my mother used to make for me and my sister.  And chocolate eggs & bunnies.  Being the youngest, I had to remind my mother sometimes that Easter bunny was due to arrive in the morning. 

"Mom!  The Easter bunny hasn't come yet!"  I would exclaim. 

"Um..  Go upstairs for a few minutes and come back!"  my mom would answer.

As if by magic, a few minutes later, there was my basket.  DUH.

Most memorable Easter would have to be when we had cousins staying with us that year.  It was their first Easter in America.  I was the Easter bunny, and that is how I got my title as COELHA.  :B 

5. _____ jelly beans are the ones I eat first.

Pink, and red, and white ones.  I throw away the black ones. 

6. I like _____ grass in my Easter basket!

Paper grass, preferable in the color green.  See answer for question #1.

7.  What I will be doing this Easter: 

COOKING!!!  I am having family over; we will eat ham.  We may have an Easter egg hunt.  I am seriously thinking of taking a day or two off next week. 

 

Friday, April 6, 2007

Good Friday

Good Friday is a very solemn day.  I think I will need to go visit my father's grave today.  I haven't made the time to go there as much as I should.  I would go there more often, but it was depressing me a little too much--more than I could handle on some days. I need to leave him some flowers.  I know he isn't "there" anymore.  My faith, and my heart  knows he is somewhere in a far better place, but it's the closet place I can get to from here. 

I found this at a website and thought I would share it. 

The Cradle of Hope
by Max Lucado

Christ rose first; then when Christ comes back, all his people will become alive again.
1 Corinthians 15:23 TLB

Let’s go to the tomb, for Jesus lies in the tomb.

Still. Cold. Stiff. Death has claimed its greatest trophy. He is not asleep in the tomb or resting in the tomb or comatose in the tomb; he is dead in the tomb. No air in his lungs. No thoughts in his brain. No feeling in his limbs. His body is as lifeless as the stone slab upon which he has been laid.

The executioners made sure of it. When Pilate learned that Jesus was dead, he asked the soldiers if they were certain. They were. Had they seen the Nazarene twitch, had they heard even one moan, they would have broken his legs to speed his end. But there was no need. The thrust of a spear removed all doubt. The Romans knew their job. And their job was finished. They pried loose the nails, lowered his body, and gave it to Joseph and Nicodemus.

Joseph of Arimathea. Nicodemus the Pharisee. Jesus had answered the prayer of their hearts, the prayer for the Messiah. As much as the soldiers wanted him dead, even more these men wanted him alive.

As they sponged the blood from his beard, don’t you know they listened for his breath? As they wrapped the cloth around his hands, don’t you know they hoped for a pulse? Don’t you know they searched for life?

But they didn’t find it.

So they do with him what they were expected to do with a dead man. They wrap his body in clean linen and place it in a tomb. Joseph’s tomb. Roman guards are stationed to guard the corpse. And a Roman seal is set on the rock of the tomb. For three days, no one gets close to the grave.

But then, Sunday arrives. And with Sunday comes light — a light within the tomb. A bright light? A soft light? Flashing? Hovering? We don’t know. But there was a light. For he is the light. And with the light came life. Just as the darkness was banished, now the decay is reversed. Heaven blows and Jesus breathes. His chest expands. Waxy lips open. Wooden fingers lift. Heart valves swish and hinged joints bend.

And, as we envision the moment, we stand in awe.

We stand in awe not just because of what we see, but because of what we know. We know that we, too, will die. We know that we, too, will be buried. Our lungs, like his, will empty. Our hands, like his, will stiffen. But the rising of his body and the rolling of the stone give birth to a mighty belief: “What we believe is this: If we get included in Christ’s sin-conquering death, we also get included in his life-saving resurrection. We know that when Jesus was raised from the dead it was a signal of the end of death-as-the-end. Never again will death have the last word. When Jesus died, he took sin down with him, but alive he brings God down to us” (Rom. 6:5–9 MSG).

 

Forgotten Shoes

This morning I felt a little rushed, and I did it again..  I forgot to pack Nicholas' shoes. 

I hate that it when that happens!!

It's not the first time I've forgotten his shoes.  There is NOTHING open at 8:00 besides a few drug stores around my work.  I made a mad rush to Rite Aid and found a pair of slip ons in his size.  They are nothing fancy, but at least he will have shoes to play in at preschool.  Today they are having an Easter egg hunt--don't want him to miss on that one.  I pay so much each week for his half day preschool care, that I really don't want him to miss a day.  I want my money's worth!!  I know Nick is not going to be too happy with them.  "I want my Spiderman shoes!"  I can hear him now already.

A few years ago, my older son Andrew forgot to put on his shoes for school.  He just dragged himself out of the house and sat in the car wearing only socks.  Poor kid goes to school near my work, so during the 40 minute drive to school, he just falls back to sleep again most of the time.  We didn't realize he had no shoes until we got into town.  He was so upset because his class was going on a field trip that day to Monterey, and there he was shoe-less.  "Lucky" for him, his sister left her shoes in the car from the previous day.  Even more lucky for him, it was tennis shoes--black ones.  Sure, they were a little big, and I worried that  he would be teased all day long, but no one noticed--not even the little playboy bunnies emblems on the sides.  His pants were long enough to hide those. 

Poor guy.  He is now a 7th grader he wears size 10 shoes, is taller than his sister,  and entering those "awkward years".  The peach fuz on his upper lip is getting darker.  Looks like he'll need a shaver soon.  Yesterday afterschool he disclosed to me that he was having a bad day in sports.  "I keep dropping the ball.."  After school I found him lying on his futon in his room taking a nap.  "I need a hug, mom."  he said.  <Sigh..>  My little boy is growing up.  I hope he never out grows those "I need a hugs.." days though.  I'll miss those. 

 Don't worry..I won't be wearing these on the plane.

Thursday, April 5, 2007

Tidbits/Thankful Thursday

Nelly..  What were you thinking when you put this outfit on?  I'm a little disappointed with you Ms. Furtado!!  Que vergonha!  She looks like a bird who flew to hell and back..  Oh dear..  May be Sanjaya will adopt this look for his next appearance on American Idol..  Why not?

I've been busy today going to and fro being the Easter bunny.  I think I've purchased enough chocolate for the children.  I don't know what I'm thinking.  I have a lot on my mind right now..  Yesterday was a nice, relaxing day that ended with a nice dinner out with the family.  Nicholas was pretty good at the restaurant.  He even entertained us with live performances of Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star.  

  Now, I have the weekend to plan for, which inclues Easter dinner for Sunday.  My mother will bringing the ham.  Next weekend, I'll be taking her shoe shopping for her big Azorean trip in June.  (She has a suitcase packed already.)  Weekend after that, me and my hubby are going away for a few days for our anniversary..  YIPPEE!!  I'm looking forward to that very, very much. 

Thankful Thursday:  Here are a few things I'm thankful of:

1.  I'm thankful that I will NEVER have to wear a bird costume like Nelly Furtado and make a complete fool of myself.  I love you Nelly, but...PLEEEEAASSE.  Furthermore, I'm glad I am not famous and no one cares what I'm wearing.  If I could go to work in pajama pants, I would. 

2.  I'm thankful for another birthday with my family, and hope there are many, many, many more years to come for me to spend with them. 

3.  I'm thankful that my mom is bringing the ham.  One less thing to worry about.

4.  I'm thankful that although I dread the shoe shopping ordeal with mother, I am glad she is walking again and back to her ole' self. 

5.  I'm thankful that it's April and Ican finally leave the kids at home for a weekend with husband.  It's been four years people!  {SIGH}   

Wednesday, April 4, 2007

It's My Birthday!!

Yes, it's here..

I'm at work, but I've basically done nothing all day..  I've been too busy being spoiled rotten with flowers, and some beautiful cards and well wishes!! 

THANK YOU ALL!! 

Wondering about gift ideas?  Did I ever mention that DIAMONDS are my birthstone?  (HA HA HAH)  I'm just kidding.  Please...don't send me any..

I'm having a wonderful day..  Hope yours is going well too! 

Tuesday, April 3, 2007

Tuesday Night, and I'm POOPED

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W91sqAs-_-g

Copy and paste the above, and you will know why I love Alanis. 

Whew...  What a day..  I'm feeling a little overwhelmed today.  Lots of errands.  Tomorrow however, it will be a short day for me.  I plan to leave work early when my son gets out of school, and possible take a nice walk near the ocean.  I haven't been able to do that in a long, long time.  I may just stop in the building I was born and have an Italian brew at Ristorante Italiano.  Hey, I may just be a "no show" at work today..  It's my birthday, and I can do anything I want, dammit!! 

(Thanks for the card, Teresa!) 

Okay, it's time for a long awaited bubble bath! 

Monday, April 2, 2007

Chicken Jenny & Tia Maria

 

 

Some of you had some questions about my last entry in regards to chickens, and Tia Maria.  I hope the following will answer some of your questions. 

 

It is an old tradition in the Azores, that family members and friends come and visit you when you arrive to as ilhas (the islands) on vacation.  I remember quite fondly the many visits from relatives coming to our home with bags of sugar, multiple colored tissue wrapped bottles of liquor, and live chickens.  Yes, I said chickens.  People would bring chickens so we could have fresh eggs each morning during our stay.  It may sound a bit odd, but it was customary to have at least one chicken brought to us by a relative each time we came to visit.

 

There was one chicken in particular that I was quite fond of.  Her name was Jenny.  She was a beautiful little red feathered hen, who would often meet me at the door each morning.  I think she thought she was a cat or a dog.  She was a friendly chicken—the only one that never chased me in the yard. 

 

I remember one day my daughter was working on an essay for school.  The assignment was to write an essay about your family, and your given name.  My daughter was curious, and wanted to know if I hadn’t chosen her name Elizabeth as her name, what would have been my second choice. 

 

I thought a moment, and wondered whether or not I should reveal to her that I had almost named her after my beloved chicken. 

 

“I almost named you Jennifer.”  I responded

 

“Why, Jennifer?” 

 

“Um, I knew a Jenny that I was very fond of.  I decided against it because I wanted you to have a name that would translate from English to Portuguese well so your father’s relatives would understand your name.  I had a favorite doll named Elizabeth, so I chose your name.” 

 

My explanation just went over her head, and she wanted to know about Jenny. 

 

“Jenny?  Who’s Jenny?”

 

“My pet chicken, Chicken Jenny.”

 

My daughter was not amused.

 

Tia Maria.  I hear Tia Maria is a great bottle of liquor, but the Tia Maria I was referring to was my dear, long-departed, Tia Meriquinhas – (translated to mean “little Mary”.)  She was my mother’s oldest aunt who lived alone in a dark house in my grandmother’s childhood home.  She was afraid of electricity, and didn’t have any in her home.  I remember vividly her little face looking out of the window as we drove up to the house.  She was a small woman, with red hair and blue eyes, who had gone through much disappointment in life.  She was known as a very determined, and very stubborn.  Growing up, I was often compared to her because I was known to be a stubborn child.  I would take it as an insult most of the time, but after I knew of her story, and the struggles and disappointment she had in life, I didn’t think of it as an insult anymore.  She was a very strong woman who in the end didn’t care what other people thought of her.  I admire that. 

 

Anyway, one of Tia Maria’s most proud possessions, next to her gold bracelets she hid in her mattress, was her chickens.  I’m sure she had a name for each one of them.  (Another thing we have in common.)  She could talk for hours about her chickens for they were never a dull subject.  When I was younger, there was a song my mother used to sing to us.  It was a song about a Tia Merquinhas and her “galinhas” (chickens).  Of course the song wasn’t written about this particular aunt, but when I was younger, I thought it was.  The song went sort of like this:

 

Listen Tia Merquinhas..

Watch over your galinhas..

Your rooster is single…. 

 

Okay, it sounds pretty stupid in English, I know.