Monday, March 5, 2007

I'm here

Whew...

I'm surprisingly very chipper for a someone who has had only 3 hours sleep!  I just couldn't go to sleep last night, which is kind of strange because I was so in the mood to take a nap Sunday afternoon. I was seriously thinking of taking a nap, but I naturally did not have time for it.  I was expecting Lizzy to work until only midnight, but unfortunately a few people who were scheduled to work were no shows, so she didn't get out until around 1:30.   I just lay there in bed sleepless most of the night.

I'm finally looking forward to the summer.  Perhaps I'll be able to "sleep in" during my vacation.  Sleeping in for me is waking up at 8 a.m.  I remember, as a kid waking up on a Saturday at 11 or sometimes at noon.  Those were the days, huh?  I think those days are pretty much gone for me until I reach senior citizen age. 

The morning started with drama, all over my poor mother's airline tickets.  I helped book them with the travel agent, and she is leaving on the same day as my brother and his family are leaving, in June.  My brother got his tickets weeks ago.  My mother still hasn't received hers.  I'm leaving in August, and I already got my tickets.  Something just didn't seem right.  When I discovered that her check for her flight in June wasn't cashed yet, it made me worry, so I made another call to the travel agency. 

Oh I have NEVER had so much trouble to book a flight in my whole life.  Apparently, there is another woman who shares my mom's name (my mom has a common Portuguese name) but still there is just no excuse for this mix up.  They booked the wrong person with the last name Costa to the wrong flight apparently.  Although the problem has been fixed (NOW), and they have apologized up and down over it all this morning, this just still pisses me off a little. 

 I had been checking on flights everyday since the first of the year until they finally made flights available last month.  I made it a point to book the flights as early as possible.  I called in the flights and spoke to the woman at the agency who promised to call me back the next day with the totals.  She of course never called.  I called the next morning, and she basically tells me that she remembers me calling, but she didn't book the flight, and the flights were full.  Lovely.  Then she apologizes and books the flights for my mom, and my brother and his family, but tells me she will book it anyway because of a cancellation but I needed everyone to make payment in full by the next day, Lisbon time.  My brother calls up all rushed the next morning to book his flight, and I hurry and drop off my mother's payment at the travel agency building the night before to secure my mother's flight.  The building was not unlocked like it was promised to be, so my daughter had to put it under the door. 

When my brother calls in, the travel agent woman informs him that they didn't get my mother's payment.  Apparently her envelope was "lost" for a few hours until the custodian of the building proudly brought it to their office.  "Your mother's check just walked through the door!"  I'm told.  Okay, that was a relief.  Now it's a month later, and they still haven't cashed the check, and they booked the flight to another woman who shares my  mother's name?! 

Oh the insanity!

Don't they know that Portuguese people are born nervous?!  I'm not kidding.  My mom was already going for her "nervous pills".  I'm the first to tell you that we have high anxiety issues!  Oh the drama!!  The travel agent (by the way we are working with a Portuguese travel agency-who really should know better) woman called my mother to reassure her that she would be on the flight with my brother.  Tickets should be in the mail this week.  She apologized up and down over the phone.  My mother still doesn't believe it until she has those tickets in her hands.  The travel agent lady's voice sounds too similar to her crazy cousin's voice (a whole other story in itself)--and this is not very reassuring for her. 

I'm glad I just listened to my instincts told me to call and CHECK AGAIN.  After all this, they should put my mom in a first class.  I wouldn't mind being in first class myself for that matter.  I just hope this is the end of Airline ticket drama.  Why can't things just fall in placeeasy for once?  :SIGH: 

After speaking to the travel agency, I did find out where our flights "Stop".  It's a direct flight, but it stops (I'm assuming for fuel) not in Boston or New Jersey, but, Ontario, Canada.  I've been to Newfoundland, but never to Ontario.  I'm wondering if we'll be able to stretch our legs out for a spell while we are there and check out Canada--the airport at least anyway.  Sometimes they let people walk around, and sometimes they want to keep passengers on the plane.  Luckily, it's mostly a night flight, and Nicholas will sleep most of the time--I'm hoping anyway. 

I'm wondering what to wear on the plane now.  I want to wear white, but I don't know if I can risk it.  Should I wear pumps, or spring for really low Mary Janes?  I could go in tennis shoes and shame my mother in front of all of the relatives that gather at the airport and never hear the end of how disappointed she is seeing me arriving in a comfortable sweatsuit ensemble; but I want to enjoy my vacation.  I know mom is wearing a suit on the plane.  Fortunately, I won't have to match her outfit because she'll be flying in with my brother--that will be his problem.  Yes, when we were younger, the whole family traveled in cooridinated colored outfits.  The last time both of my parents flew together they were upscaled to First Class simply because, according to the steward, the "looked like the belonged in First Class."  This of course was a very proud moment for my mother.  I swear, they were dressed up like Nancy and Ronnie.  My daddy was so cute in  his tie, but, looked so uncomfortable. 

I got an email finally back from EX man.  He writes that he intends to help pay for the tickets.  He doesn't say how much, or when he intends to pay, but at least I got a  yes answer..  This is good.  His birthday is coming next week.  I have to make sure the kids remember to send something.

 

Yawn... I'm tierd..

It's a little past 1 am, and I'm still awake. I am waiting for a phone call from my daughter.  She is at work doing another floor set.  I feel like the bear in the above picture.  Heck, I probably look like that bear too.  It's that wonderful time of the month, and I feel haggard and bloated (too many Easter peanut M&Ms).  I'm all blunded up in my long johns, sweatshirt and slipper booties.  I'm ready to venture into the night and take that 5 minute drive to the mall.  The only people driving around at this hour are cops, security geeks, and drunks who have had a little too much karayoke at the bowling alley.  Hopefully, I will not have to meet with any of them.

Okay, I got the call....  Sleep well.  

Sunday, March 4, 2007

Silly 7

I got the following from:  Carpe Diem - Seize the Day  (Thanks Dawn!)


Finish the sentence...

1. Once, when I ... was single, I went to a bar alone. 

2. Lately, it seems that... everyone and their mother have been sick.

3. I can't stomach another ... man claiming to be the father of Anna Nicole's baby!

4. Here's something you never knew about me... I know all the words to the musical, My Fair Lady. 

5. I am so ready for... a nice, long vacation. 

6. If you put together... a toddler and chocolate you get a very stinky poopy.

7. My plans for the week include... going to work, take the kids to school, do errands, Dr. appointment Wednesday, work on my passports & Nick's potty training.  

 

 

Thursday, March 1, 2007

Assignment #154-Car or Computer

This assignment comes from John Scalzi: 

Weekend Assignment #154: Your Car or Your Computer: You must pick only one. Which one do you choose?

You have to be joking, right?

This a NO BRAINER.  I would choose my car! 

Not only do I have to drive to work each day, I have to take my kids to school.  I have to do my grocery shopping as well--it's hard wheeling 10 bags of groceries in a shopping cart 3 miles!!  I'm a bit surprised by this assignment.  I don't understand HOW or WHY someone would give up their car for a computer!  I don't want to offend anyone..but...WHY would someone even consider it?  I mean..how else would you get to point A to point B?

Perhaps its because I rely so much on my car everyday,  that I find the question a bit silly.  If I worked at home and didn't have to be primary transportation for my children and my mother, I guess I would think of this differently--but, I don't.  I wouldn't even want to imagine having to rely on public transportation to get around either.  I love my car..  I like to drive..  It's one of my simplest pleasures to be able to hit the road, turn on the radio, and sing my lungs out.  It sometimes is the only ALONE time I have besides sleeping, and sitting at the dentist chair--but that really doesn't count, does it? 

This is not saying I don't enjoy my computer.  I do enjoy being on the computer--its another outlet I have, but I really can't take my mom to her medical appointments from it, go to work, take the kids to school...etc..etc..  You get the idea. 

Extra Credit: Which was more expensive: Your first car, or your most recent computer?

Again, you've got to be kidding.  My first car was more expensive.  I didn't get a real PC until 1996.  My car was a lot more expensive.  BUT, I used to know someone who spent more money on their PC than all the furniture in his house.  The coffee tables were made of cardboard; and he was sooo cheap, the guy would borrow a TV from next door when he wanted to rent a movie.  The computer system desk however was the size of Norway.  Go figure.. 

Happy March

I'm home today--Nicholas' ear isn't aching, but he still has a cough.  :( 

It's March! 

Is it just me, or is this year just speeding by a little too fast?  Perhaps it's because my birthday is approaching rather too quickly for my taste.  I just realized that my kids are going to be out of school in a matter of only a few months.  Actually, I'm looking forward to when my son Andrew is out of school for the summer.  I'm going to work 4 10 hour days and have a 3 day weekend.  10 hour days really aren't too bad--I've done it before. 

It's not raining today, but it sure is chilly outside.  I went outside of my front door to call for my cat, and I finally realized how neglected the flowers in my flower pots looked.  Eeek...  So depressing.  I quickly watered them, but I don't know if that is going to do any good.  I think they are basically dead at this point. 

Sitting around at home, it hard not to want to clean.  I moved some stuff that was on top of my fridge, and found the dusty mess layer of yucky dirt atop my fridge.  Of course, I need more cleaning products.  I'm tempted to drive up to Target right now, but I really don't want to take the little guy outside.  It's too cold out there. 

Daytime T.V. during the week is the pits.  Yesterday I got to see Sylvia Browne on Montel.  I don't know about that woman.  She comes across a little to vague to me; interesting, but too vague.  Besides court shows--(yawn) all there is in Maury Povich, and those really annoying vocational school commercials.. "Get off the couch and get a career!  Call now!"  These commercials are sooo annoying--those and the car insurance ones:  "Call the General!"  If it wasn't so cold out, I would go take Nicholas for a walk. 

I sent an email to Mr. Ex husband in regards to the plane tickets, and I've been checking the status of my mail.  Of course it's still sitting their listed as "unread".  Lovely. 

I'm so incredibly bored. 

St. Patricks Day?  Do you celebrate it?  I don't believe I have a smidge of Irish in me, but I have cousins that are.  Let's see, I have a cousin Kathleen, Maureen....etc..  I've changed my journal colors for them.  Ain't I festive? 

 

 

Wednesday, February 28, 2007

Wednesday...Wednesday...

This morning, when I woke up, I was hoping to turn on the T.V. and hear that the Hwy was shut down from the winter storm, and snow in the mountains; but no luck.  I finally dragged myself into the shower and hurried out of the house.  Nicholas seemed to be just fine this morning, but I got a call from my mom at work informing me that he had been screaming since 9 am, and she wasn't able to reach me over the phone because her phone was "not working."  I'm not sure if Andrew left the phone off the hook and got the battery to die, or if my mom thought the phone was the remote control again, but anyhoo, it looks like Nicholas has another ear ache again.  I swear, he has never been so sick since he started pre-school.  If he didn't like it so much, I swear I'm tempted to get him out..  BUT, I don't think my mother will ever be ready to have my little terror full time again.  I had to wait until Andrew got out of school, before we could go home--thank God it was his early day today.  If Nick doesn't feel better, I may have to stay home tomorrow.  Life would be so much easier if I worked in the same town I lived in... :SIGH:  I haven't heard from that test yet, but I did apply for something else yesterday.  It will happen, but it will take some time. 

Well, the receptionist was not in today again...BIG surprise.  Yesterday I overheard my boss lady talk to my boss man on the phone.  Apparently, this woman called the boss lady 3 times.  Once at 8pm to tell her she wasn't feeling well, then again at midnight, saying that she was calling to say she was sick, and wasn't sure she had called earlier, and then again at 6 am to announce that she really doesn't feel well, and won't be in.  Today both boss lady and boss man was out, so we don't know what her excuse is for today.  Hmm... 

When I said I thought she may be a vampire "clubber", these are the reasons that support my idea:    Not only is this woman quite pale looking, she refuses to open the light in her office.  She reminds me of one of my mother's older aunts--the one that was afraid of electricity.  She says it's because the light glares on her computer screen too much, but I beg to differ.  She NEVER opens the shades on her windows.  Each time we have to cover her desk when she isn't there-which is quite often, we have to bring in a small garbage can.  She leaves receipts all over the floor, and the janitor can't go into the office to clean it because she keeps the door locked.  If we forget to take the waste paper basket out of the office the next day before she comes in the morning, she has been known to kick it out of the office.  I witnessed this first hand myself.  In her office, she has a library of books--good books, I should add.  Not only does she appear to be very well read, you would think she was a fashionista by the stacks and stacks of expensive fashion magazines she keeps in that office.   I find this a little odd since she always come in dressed in long skirts, sweaters, and scarves with tennis shoes.  She also keeps a collection of half full Canada Dry Soda cans.  She has 7 of them--all half full.  Does anyone know why someone would keep 7 cans of half full club soda cans?  Okay, she is either a vampire or a binge drinker..  What is your take?

Okay, I think I've wasted quite a bit on the receptionist right now.  Poor thing.  I do feel sorry for her, but what she does is so unfair to the woman who primarily has to sit in for her when she is gone.  She never complains about covering the desk, and no one in management is taking this very seriously.  Sometimes I wonder who are the real flakes in the office, the receptionist, or management?  It might be a toss up. 

Tuesday, February 27, 2007

Electric Dreams--(I loved that song..)

 

My youngest son woke up screaming this morning exclaiming:

 

“I don’t want to read the mail!  I want to play my game!”

 

My youngest is 3 years old. 

 

Apparently he was having a dream about the computer.  After we put in broadband, the older boys use their computer upstairs in their room.  Lizzy uses her laptop in her room, and Rich uses the computer he has in the garage.  Nicholas and I share the computer in the living room.  You would think that sharing a computer with a 3 year old wouldn't’t be that hard, but think again.  He LOVES playing his multitude of CD Rom games, and Playhouse Disney, Nick Jr., and Nick.com..  We almost fight over the computer sometimes.  When I want to check my email, he’ll sit on my lap, and sometimes X me out of AOL; or if I’ve just completed an entry in my the journal, he’ll X out the screen.  It can be a little frustrating at times.  This morning, I guess he had a dream of me checking my email in the middle of his SpongeBob game.  How dare I want to check my mail and interrupt this game!

 

“It’s okay, Nick you are just having a bad dream.”  I try to explain to my frantic 3 year old.

 

“I want to go back to my bad dream!”  He sobs, “I want to go back to my game!” 

 

Is this a little too extreme or what?

 

After a few moments, the crying stopped, and he was back in dream land, computer world. 

 

I had a few dreams last night myself.   Of course, unfortunately I don’t remember the whole dream entirely.  I don’t remember exactly where I am in the dream, but my ex-sister-in-law is in it, and she is in what I think is supposed to be my house in the kitchen.  In the dream, the ex-husband calls, and speaks to her, and the whole conversation is being recorded on my answering machine.  He, of course in unhappy with something about me (what else) and is just going on and on about my trip to the Azores this summer..etc.. 

 

I got the notarized letter for Andrew’s passport that I sent to the ex-husband in the mail yesterday.  I don’t know why I was expecting to see money in the envelope as well—I guess it was wishful thinking on my part.  He did say that he would help with the cost since his kids were going to see his two sisters and two brothers that the kids haven’t seen in seven years…  Hmm..  How dare I think he would be good on his word, huh?  Well, I sent him an email asking if he still intended in sending some money to help.  After this dream of hearing him yell on the phone, I just knew he must have just read his email early this morning.  Sure enough, 4:15 am my time he did—yeah sometimes I known to be just a little psychic/psychotic/psycho. 

 

The weather over here in my part of the world is a bit crazy.  It was pouring rain early this morning when hubby left for work, and by the time I left, the sky was blue, and sunny with everything outside wet as could be, with only a few dark clouds looming to the South.  My drive was wet, but clear.  By this afternoon, however, they say it will rain, with thunder storms, hail and even snow at elevations of 2,000 feet.  It’s Strange, strange weather for this part of the state.  I may even catch some snow in the mountains on my way home tonight.  I will admit to you that I purposively turned on the news as soon as I woke up, hoping that it would tell me that Hwy 17 was closed.  My boss lady, says it may happen tomorrow; her husband is a fireman and knows all this road closure/weather stuff. 

 

Surprisingly, the receptionist was here yesterday, but she didn't come after lunch.  She went to her mom’s house and got “sick” during lunch because of something she “ate," but, she told us she’d be back today.  Nope, she isn’t here today.  I haven’t heard why yet, but I’m sure it will be entertaining.  Last week, she was here two days.  Wednesday she didn't come in because she was feeling “ill,” Thursday she had to go to her mom’s home because the fence “was missing”, and then she called in Friday to say that she “found the fence” but she had to clean the gutters at her mom’s house under the rain, and because of experience, she was just so exhausted, she just couldn't come in to work that morning.  We can only speculate what she is doing at this moment.  My friend Maria and I think she lives a double life.  We think she goes out clubbing with vampires, or she is involved in an internet love affair.