Thursday, November 30, 2006

People In My Neighborhood..

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The last weekend assignment I did yesterday made me realize something.  I "travel" every day.  Okay, it's not leisure travel, but nonetheless, it's travel.  On average I spend about 2 hours each day on my Monday thru Friday work commute--that's 10 hours every week, just going over Hwy 17 from San Jose to Santa Cruz.  (And that is not counting weekend...OR the little errands I do everyday..)  It's a good thing I like driving..hey..?

While leaving work today to pick up my son from school, I realized that I see the same people almost everyday while I'm driving to work, picking up my son, and going home.  The people range from the ones I actually work with, and the random, people of no name who just happen to be walking by each morning, or each afternoon, or evening when I'm out there on the road.  I have a desire to name these "nameless" people for some reason. 

There's the Asian woman and her kids.  Each morning, I see her, wearing the same straw triangular hat--she wears it rain or shine.  I see her rushing over to the bus stop with two round faced little boys.  I see her in the morning, and later in the afternoon, wearing the hat. 

 And then there's that man who I always see walking up and down the street--the guy who wears the white shirt and white pants.  I don't think this guy EVER changes his clothes.  I saw him once at a concert on the beach a few years back.  He got to the concert early and placed his towel right in front of the stage.  Tiffany was performing (I think we're alone now.. Tiffany), and he made it no secret that he was Tiffany's #1 fan! 

There is also the man in front of the town clock.  When he isn't holding a card board sign for food, I see him past out sleeping at the bottom of the town clock, or he is sharing a cigarette with some other friends.  Seems like all he does is walk back in front in front of traffic, holding his sign.  I often wonder if he is an angel in disguise, and he was sent to this world just to test the compassion levels of people passing by.  Honestly though, this woman does not carry cash.  (My kids have it. )  I always pass him by, with guilt written all over my face.

I also see the same people casually walking or jogging in their cute little jogging outfits, as I rush past them in my car.  I often wonder to myself..  What do these people do for a living?  Do they just stay at home, and get up early for "fun" and exercise?  Naturally, I am very envious of this crowd.  I don't see this crowd at work--I see them in the residential areas near my home and by mother's house.  I try not to make eye contact in fear that they see my evil snarl.  There is one woman in particular that wears the red sweater with matching scarf and head band, who swings her arms a little to fast for my liking.  She looks like a walking windmill, and she makes me nervous.

Of course I cannot forget the "neighborhood watch" woman from my mom's neighborhood.  Sometimes she walks her dog alone, and at other times she walks with her husband.  She will walk by, not smile, but stare at you.  I'm not kidding.  For awhile there I thought she had a personal vendetta against me.  Sure, I threw a rock down the canyon and hit her ugly, red haired freckled son right on the head, but I wasn't aiming, and that was years ago!  I think she is the reason why you have to have a parking permit in your car to park on the street. 

I cannot forget the nice people I see from time to time.  The nice couple at the corner that walk their dog.  They always say hello to me.  And then there is "Nell".  Nell is an elderly woman lives right across the street from the nice couple.  She has lived on this street as long as I remember.  She must be in her 80's and she still drives.  I shudder each time I see her behind the wheel.  She used to talk to me about my the neighbors that used to live across the street.  She is sort of the neighborhood gossip.  She probably still talks about the torrid affair that our neighbor Loretta had with her "friend" the piano player, while her husband, Jim was working late. 

Well, these are some of the people "I see in the neighborhood..  The people that I see each day..." 

This Saturday we are going to aneighborhood party that one of our neighbors down the street had invited us to.  These neighbors are new, and I don't think I've ever spoken to them other than saying hello.  We've lived on the street for over 3 years now, and I don't know everyone very well.  Mrs. Stewart, the homemaker who makes awesome pies, with the beautiful garden, Art, who gives us tomatoes from  his garden (this was before Nicholas pooped on his lawn), and then there is "Robin" the woman who lives down the street who always has her holiday decorations up before anyone else, NAKED MAN--Robin's "friend", (hopefully he'll be wearing a shirt AND pants), oh, and we can't forget Joe and Anne--the quiet couple across the street.  Joe practices his putting, and Anne makes doll clothes for dolls...  This should be exciting..  I can't wait.  The anticipation of it all is killing me.  May be I should bring my camera and share it with you later.  I'm being sarcastic.  I'm sure it won't be that bad--it might be fun.  May be Mrs. Stewart will give me her receipe for that chocolate pie! 

Weekend is coming..  It's December TOMORROW!  Have you sent out your Christmas cards yet?!

Wednesday, November 29, 2006

Weekend Assignment #141-Do You Enjoy Traveling?

Weekend Assignment #141: Do you enjoy traveling? Not the arriving and being where you're going, mind you; I'm asking if you enjoy the actual act of traveling from one place to another, by car or train or airplane or whatever. What I'm asking is if you enjoy the journey as much as you enjoy the destination.

Extra credit: Any more travel planned for 2006, or are you home for good for the rest of the year?

My answer:  Yes and no.. 

What I like best about traveling is the anticipation.  When I travel, it is often a fun event.  I like planning the vacation, shopping for the clothes I need..etc..and looking forward to some time away. 

        

I enjoy ROAD TRIPS!!  I used to take many of them with the kids when I was a single mom, and now me and hubby take turns at the wheel.  We just put on the overhead DVD player in the van and let the kids watch their movies or video games.  I enjoy going through towns, stopping on the way...  My favorite road trips are when we drive down to southern California (usually on our way to Disneyland).  We usually stop at Pismo Beach, and Solvang, and one of my favorite places on the way--Santa Barbara.  We last took a road trip to Arizona which was fun--as long as we were in the air conditioned van.  NEVER go to Arizona in August. 

                       

Airplanes!  I LOVE being in airports--always have.  I don't know what it is about them, but I get all excited.  I like watching people come and go, and the hustle and bustle of it all just excites me for some reason.  Being on the airplane however, is different.  I've been on many charter flights where the majority of the people speak very little English, and let's just say it has been an interesting experience.  I always have the luck of being seated right behind very large people.  I've been in 12 hour non-stop flights with toddlers on my lap.  It's not very fun.  I also cannot sleep on planes.  I once dozed off however, and thought the plane was crashing, only to know that it just landed.  I once flew to Las Vegas years back with a bunch of friends of mine.  NEVER sit by people who just ate foot long hot dogs.  Thank God it was a short flight. 

      

  <--my favorite foreign destination...  Azores, Portugal

Extra Credit:  Any more travel in 2006?  No...not that I'm aware of.. 

Tuesday, November 28, 2006

Christmas Photo

All of the children were home at the same time last Sunday, so I dared to do the impossible!  Take a photo of all of them together for those Christmas cards I had saved in the attic!  You know, those cards where you slide in a picture, and voila--instant Christmas card?!  They are great actually--makes giving cards really personal, and I have many relatives that live faraway that are always asking for pictures of the kids.  Well, I bought 5 packs of them during an after Christmas sale at the drug store two years ago, and didn't find them until I came across them last year, as I was taking the tree down..  I was bummed!  I vowed I wouldn't forget to use them this year.

Well, I got them all in the backyard, and I attempted to do what seemed to be the impossible.  As you can see, it took awhile.  Andrew protested most of the time, and found Nicholas quite entertaining.  Nicholas was so excited about being outside that he was more interested in running around the yard, and blow bubbles with his bubble gun.  Matthew was a good sport, and smiled perfectly for the pictures, as did Elizabeth.  At the end, after taking picture 8, I almost surrendered to the fact that it was going to be impossible to get the results I wanted. 

Finally, after much coaxing, and tickling the little guy, we finally got a picture.  You can't see me of course; I'm jumping up and down with my husband in the backyard trying to get Nicholas' attention.  It's no wonder the kids are smiling---we probably look pretty darn silly.  I can only imagine what the neighbors are thinking.. 

Anyhoo..  I got my pictures developed, inside each of their respective cards, and I'm off writing them off..  I am happy.  Mission accomplished! 

Monday, November 27, 2006

Happy Holidays

I love the graphics at Derasta Creation...  Thanks again... 

Well, it's official..  The Christmas shopping rampage has begun..  Oh joy! 

I ventured off to a mall on Friday morning.  I was brave.  I did not however get up at 4 am like I have done in the past 7 years.  I think I've grown wiser.  I got up at my leisure at 8 am, and dropped off my oldest at the mall.  Poor thing worked a full day on Black Friday.  I stopped and had breakfast with the three boys, dropped the oldest to his basketball practice, and went back to the mall with the younger ones.  It was insane at Target.  INSANE..  Other than dropping off Liz at work, and picking her up, I've kept my distance from the mall.  I was there a total of 2 hours, and it was enough for me. 

Online shopping is bliss.. 

Have you almost done with your Christmas shopping?  I'm not quite, but I hope to get to the 1/2 mark by the end of the month.  As children get older, they are harder to shop for. 

A friend of mine shared me her newest dilemna.  Apparently, she has someone on her list that has been naughty, unappreciative, and just plain rude towards her.  She is wondering if she should even bother giving this person a gift this year.  I can only hope I raise my children well enough to appreciate what they have, and not be so materialistic as they get older.  It's the thought that counts, afterall, right? 

I'm not giving any fruitcake this year..  So, if you are on my list, don't worry. 

Thanksgiving was nice; we had two of them.  First one was spent with my husband's family, and the 2nd one was at my brother's house with my family.  It was nice to see everyone again.  I don't see my nephew's and nieces as much as I used to, so it was nice.  My Oreo pudding came out good, but no one hardly tasted my sherry liquer cake.  I ate some, and it came out good as well.  Half of it went to my daughter's boyfriend's mom, and the rest, well, I threw it away mostly because I was afraid that I would consume the rest of it.  (Yes, it was that good.) 

What do you want for Christmas?  I can't decide on two things..  A cruise to Hawaii with my husband (yes, I'm dreaming..I know), OR lose 15 pounds.  Santa, give me a magic pill to lose it, please!  I am 15 pounds over my "ideal weight".  Why are those last 15 pounds so hard to lose?  I've been dragging it along with me for the past 10 years and it won't drop off.  I know..  I shouldn't complain... but, really.  A cruise to Hawaii would be nice.  Husband I NEVER had a honeymoon, just two nights away, followed by an Easter dinner with family.  Nope, not a honeymoon.  I'll be happy with some new and loose pajama pants--with palm trees.  I'll feel thinner and have a little piece of Hawaii when I wear them. 

Okay, back to my online shopping..  I mean, back to work..  (ha ha ha)

Picture from Hometown

Thanks to D's

Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Weekend Assignment #140

Weekend Assignment #140: Ever been really late to something really important? Share your adventures in tardiness! Yes, if you've ever slept through a flight, or forgotten a date, or neglected to get something out of the oven in time -- with hilarious results or otherwise -- we want to know.

Extra Credit: Do you wear a watch?

Story of the Burnt Nipples... 

It was a restful evening.  My husband was at work, and the kids were in bed.  Aww....  I said to myself..  I can finally take a relaxing hot bath.  It WAS nice, and peaceful..  Nothing like a nice hot bath after a long day!  I finally got out of the tub, put a towel around me, and stepped into a smoke filled kitchen.

"On no!"  I shouted.  I had left the pot of boiling water on the stove to clean my son's baby bottle nipples, and I had totally forgotten about them!  I immediately turned off the stove, and checked on the kids.  They were fine..sleeping away.  The smell was awful!  The nipples had melted onto the bottom of the pot!  I quickly got dressed, took the burnt pot of melted nipples out in the back yard, and proceeded to open all the windows that I could possibly open to get the smell and smoke out of my small condo.  I lived in a condominium duplex at the time, and my neighbors lived above me, and across from me.  I opened the front door, and let even more smoke out, but then closed it once most of the smoke was gone. 

Suddenly a knock was heard at my door.  It was a fireman.

"Ma'am, we had a call of a possible fire.  Are you okay?"

I was quite surprised.

"Yes, I'm fine, really--there was no fire."  I went on to explain about the melted nipples.  I could tell by his face, that he was trying very hard not to show any emotion on his face, but I could tell that he must of thought I was crazy.

"Ma'am, we have 3 fire trucks on there way here.  I need to see the pot of melted nipples."

I obliged.  I felt totally ridiculous--I could see the fire truck out in the parking lot from my backyard, and I could hear the sirens of other trucks approaching.  I rushed back to the door, quite embarrassed with my pot of burnt nipples.

Okay, this might sound funny NOW, but I was left wondering what kind of neighbors I actually had.  You would of thought that a neighbor could have possibly, knocked on my door to ask IF I and my two young children were okay?  I mean...  My neighbors basically share the same building!!  Sure, one of them called out of concern, but you would think at least ONE of them would have come to my door to see if I was alive!!  I know it's my fault for leaving the oven on...but, really still.... 

I saw the fireman who came to my door later that same week at Boston Market.  I told my oldest, and she got a big laugh.  I was so embarrassed.  I was hoping he didn't remember me and my burnt nipples.  He looked over my direction and smiled with the rest of his crew.  Oh there's the woman with the burnt nipples! 

Extra Credit:  No, I don't wear a watch.  I use the clock on my cell.  There are just too many clocks around me as it is to remind me that I'm late!

 

Tuesday, November 21, 2006

Tuesday

 

 

We have new tenants in the office building that I work in, who have finally moved and settled in.  This is not good news.  The parking lot for this office building is NOT big enough, so if you don’t get to the office early, you are forced to either park across the street at the county building illegally, and re-park your car every 2 hours, or find a residential street to park on.  During my parking search, I spied two of the new employees of the building.  They were standing there, chatting away with their coffee.  As they saw my car enter the parking lot, they both turned to eyeball me.  I recognized the two of them as the new employees, for I had seen them previously entering the building with boxes of office supplies.  They continued to eyeball me as I passed them by.  This was quite annoying.  No doubt they thought I was “client” of some type.  I wanted to open my window and tell them..  “Hey, I’ve been working in this building longer than you!  Stop eye balling me!”  But I refrained.  I really hate being stared at.  Well, after encircling the building for about 10 minutes, which seemed more like eternity, I decided to find a residential street and walk the two blocks to work. 

 

As some of you may know, I work for a county office.  It’s a probation office where clients are in and out, meeting with their probation officers.  The atmosphere around here is pretty positive, but at times, arrests are made, and the reception area can be full of drama.  We may have someone walking in who is totally under the influence, loud and obnoxious, and at times, there are people shouting, crying over their positive pee test..etc..  We sometimes find random bottles of urine left in the lobby.  Fortunately, I don’t need to interact with these people most of the time; I just get their paperwork from the courts and assign their cases to a probation officer.  I can grab my work near the reception office, and then swiftly go back into my locked office.  At times, however, I will recognize someone sitting in the lobby.

 

Santa Cruz is a small town.  I was born here, and lived and worked here most of my life.  It should be no surprise that I should run into people whom I’ve crossed paths with, now and then.  In fact, I work with a woman here at this office that I’ve know since the 7th grade.  I may see someone I once knew sitting in the reception area, as a client.  I am then put in a position where  I have to decide whether or not I should “recognize” them.  I’m not being snooty, but this person is waiting to see their probation officer.  This is a very personal thing.  It’s not my business why they are there.  I don’t know if given the same situation, I would want to draw attention to myself.  Being on probation is not something to be proud of for most people.  So, I let the other person make the decision, whether or not they want to talk to me.  It’s easier, and I really don’t like putting people in what could be an embarrassing or uncomfortable position. 

 

Well, today I noticed a tall and thin woman enter the reception area.  I immediately recognized her as being someone I may have known before, but I couldn’t place the name to the face.  I smiled at her and proceeded back to my office, still wondering who this person was, but immediately stopped in my tracks when I heard the woman call out to me and ask:

 

“Excuse me, you look so familiar…  Do I know you?”

 

After a few questions of where we both went to school, I finally recognized her as someone from my church youth group, from when I was in high school.  Her mother was a youth group leader—a very sweet lady, with an angelic round face.  She was a former ballerina—and it was apparent by the way she walked and spoke.  She had this elegant grace about her—like the kind you see in someone like Audrey Hepburn.  Her daughter, the one in the hallway, was Lisa.  I never really knew Lisa very well but I remember over-hearing the other girls comment on how mean she was towards her mother.  Lisa often came to youth group dressed all in black, and she was known to be rebellious at times.  Unfortunately, Lisa’s life got even more rebellious and she found herself in the criminal system.  When I first recognized Lisa’s file, all I could think about was her poor mother. 

 

I asked Lisa about her mom, and she continued to tell me that she was doing well, but changed the subject real fast and wanted to give me a flyer to a fundraiser even she was involved with next month.  As she spoke about it, I could smell the cigarette she just must have inhaled.  That smoke smell of nicotine was omitting from her mouth was a little overwhelming, and I could actually “feel” it stuck in my throat.  I also noticed that she had put too much mascara on that morning, because most of it was now on her eyelid.  I couldn't help notice how life had aged her.  It was hard to see; especially remembering this woman was only a month younger than myself.  I remembered her to be such a pretty girl.  It’s sad for me to see how her life’s decisions had really aged her.  She asked what I did in the building, and without going into to detail; I told her I was a secretary.  No need for her to know that I had seen her file, and knew what was going on.  She seems to be now on the right track, and I pray to God, that her life continues to proceed in that direction.  We said our goodbyes, and I told her to tell her mother hello for me; although I don’t think her mother really remembers me.  I was always the quiet, and unassuming girl in the corner—I don’t think I would have been very memorable; who knows for what reason Lisa did remember me. 

 

On a lighter note, although my coffee was a bit cold, my breakfast (blueberry French toast sticks) was slightly burnt, I was greeted with a 21.1 Oz of Fine Hazelnut Chocolates of Ferrero Rocher sitting on my chair, with a sweet card attached to it.  It was from my friend, Maria.  You’ve got to love friends who give you chocolate.  Thank God for Maria!  Although, I think she secretly wants me to expand to a size 20 by the end of the year.  These chocolates cannot stay in my work area.  They must be taken home, and hidden, and taken out when many people around.  I do NOT want to be the only one around with these beauties… 

 

It’s slow here at work.  Smart co-workers left early for the holiday.  Why can’t I be that clever?

Monday, November 20, 2006

Short & Busy Week of Thanks

Thank you ADerasta Creations for the above picture.. :)

I'm happy to report, that I haven't had any weird dreams lately!  :)  Nope, I just woke up with a headache--as if a midget with big boots came over to my house and kicked me on the side of the head.  May be it it was an elf.  Tis' the season, ya' know...

Yesterday we celebrated Thanksgiving with my husband's family, and it was a nice and short visit.  The food, I must say was excellent.  I never knew how much I liked cranberry sauce--I mean, the real stuff--not the canned ones that you cut in slices.  I bought myself a bag of cranberries, and I hope to try that receipe that Monsponett sent me earlier last week.  This year we are going to have two Thanksgiving dinners..  Thursday we will be at my brothers, and I'm bringing some side dishes, including the cranberry sauce--as long as I don't mess up the receipe. 

The cold weather just makes you want to stay at home and eat; don't it?  It's not raining at the moment, but there is a chill in the air, and it's overcast.  When the weather is like this, I just want to stay in my pajama pants, play on the internet with a warm cup of coffee, watch some T.V. near a lit fireplace, and make cookies---notice that none of these activities include going to work.  I do have my weekend planned however.  Wednesday I'm making a few desserts to bring to my brothers, Thursday, my brother's house, Friday--a little shopping, (mostly sitting in front of my computer), and Saturday or Sunday I'm taking my son Andrew to see Happy Feet at the Imax theatre.  Lizzy saw it this weekend with her boyfriend, and she tells me that I MUST see this film--she even volunteered to baby sit the little guy.  It will be fun going to see it with Andrew--it will be quality time with my middle child.  Poor kid was the "baby" of the family for so many years..I sometimes think I just don't spend enough time with him.  I know one day in the near future, he won't be too excited to spend the afternoon with his Mama, so I better take advantage of him still wanting to hang out with me.  It shall be fun.  I have yet to take Nicholas to a movie theatre mostly because I'm afraid  he won't sit still, or get bored and want to leave after 10 minutes into the movie.  I think an Imax theatre is a little too extreme for a first time 3 year old. 

Has anyone else seen Happy Feet?!

        

My husband and I went to see Borat recently. 

             

 It was a very interesting film.  It was entertaining, but, let's say, I'm never in the mood to see an extremely fat, short man wrestlewith a very tall and thin, hairy man, both in the nude.  The film was interesting, mostly because it shows a human side of people that you usually don't see when a film is scripted.  Most of the people in the film, don't know what is going on, so you have some very raw reactions..  A lot of the content however, may be offensive to many. 

It's a short, and busy week for me, so I don't think I'm be posting any entries any time soon.  I want to wish you all a very blessed Thanksgiving, and I hope all of you have many things to be thankful for.  I also hope all of your Thanksgiving cooking comes out perfectly, and I hope none of us gains an ounce of poundage from any extra helpings of pie.  Turkey is fine and all, but what I like most are the desserts.  Forget the turkey, hand me another piece of pie!! 

Friday, November 17, 2006

These Dreams..

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Last night, I had the some of the weirdest dreams!  I awoke this morning so relieved that they were only dreams...  They were very, very odd.  

In the first dream, I was haunted by a ghost who enjoyed pulling my hair.  I could feel my long hair being pulled straight above me.  This "ghost" was taunting me, and pulling at my hair, and my clothes almost until my feet were above the floor.  It was freaky, because I could feel the pain in my roots, and a breeze under my neck..  I don't remember all of this dream, but I do remember a sister-inlaw of mine actually playing with "orbs"...  I screamed with I saw her playing with these floating objects.  After I screamed they disappeared.  "Oh I wish you hadn't done that, it's quite relaxing to see," she said.  Suddenly the flying orbs danced about in front of her again, and I just watched.  Weird.  It freaked me out.  I also remember reciting over and over to myself.. "Go into the light...go into the light.."  I guess in this dream I was trying to get a ghost out of my house..  Whatever the case, I think I've been perhaps watching too many episodes of "Ghost Whisperer."  It is getting a bit predictable and cheesy.  Those fake eye lashes girl, simply do not look natural looking..

In my other dream, I was in a crowded room full of relatives mostly those from overseas getting ready for a big dinner of some type.  My youngest son was busy playing with leaves, and was keeping the dinner guests entertained.  "He's such a happy child.." I remember them saying.  Then, suddenly, I see my dad standing in the corner holding a child.  I think he was holding my youngest son, Nicholas, but I'm not sure now.  All I can remember is that my father looked very young--like he was in his 20's.  I was so happy to see him there, and so happy that he was holding Nicholas--I just burst out, and ran to him and gave him a kiss and a hug.  "I've missed you so much, Daddy!  Ilove you!"  He nodded his head, and smiled.  His skin was so soft--he was so much younger, and it was very strange.  Then I went on to tell him about my dream with the ghost.  "What do you think I should do?"  I asked.  He responded, "May be you should see a psychologist." 

That is all I remember.  What is  your take on this one?  I think I understand basically WHY I had this dream-strange as it may seem.  It would just be interesting to know your thoughts.  I just hope I didn't wake up my husband, chanting.. "Go into the light, go into the light..."  I wil have to ask him later. 

It's finally Friday..  YIPPEE!!  I went online last night and bought my Christmas presents for my in-laws, via JCPenney, which I may add have some really nice stuff for Christmas giving.  It's cold and misty outside...  The holidays almost here! 

Thursday, November 16, 2006

Dark or White Meat--Assign. #139

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Weekend Assignment #139: It's time for Thanksgiving dinner! Which do you prefer -- white meat, or dark meat? Explain your answer. Because it seems that most people have a preference one way or another, and sometimes they can get testy about it.

For those of you who for some reason disdain the whole turkey scene, answering "neither" is acceptable, but you need to explain why and offer an alternate dish for consumption.

Extra credit: Being Thanksgiving, note one thing you've been thankful for in 2006.

My answer:  White Meat--no question.  It's better for you, less fat..  I mean, if you are going to be eating A LOT on Thanksgiving, best to eat the white meat.  I'm not much of a meat eater, but I will have a few thin slices of white meat, passing up the gravy.  I'm all about the sweet potatoes!!

Extra Credit:  I'm thankful for my beautiful family, my loving and understanding husband, a nice warm house, and good health.  I'm also thankful that hubby's new business is thriving!!  YIPPEE!! 

 


Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Quiet Wednesday

It's mid-week...  Yeah!!   I'm counting the days until the weekend.  It's been a busy week for me..  Lots of driving around, and doing various errands...  By the time I hit my head on the pillow, lately I fall right to sleep.  It's just dawned on me the other day, that in a few weeks it will be Thanksgiving..  Have you done any of your Christmas shopping?  

                                                        

I've already done a little.  I bought so many toys for Nicholas for his birthday earlier, that I saved some for "Santa" to give...  But, other than that, I haven't started at all.  I have a feeling I'll be doing most of my shopping on the internet.  I do like going to the mall around this time of year, but I like doing "relaxing" shopping.  Relaxed shopping involves shopping with my daughter (no boys, or babies allowed), purhasing only a few things, having a great coffee at Starbucks, and a nice lunch.  Just me and daughter..  No distractions.  Although, I do want to take the boys out to some of the nice outdoor malls--the one on Santa Cruz downtown to may be see a movie and have hot chocolate, and Santana Row in Santa Clara.  Santana Row is beautiful---very European, with a Santa Cruz feel, yet no bums, or young transient people asking for money.  There is something about a lighted palm tree that gives me that warm Christmasy feeling.  We don't have snow over here unless we want to head into mountains on a 3 hour drive, so while a lot of you have the true snowy Christmas, we have to make do with Christmas lights and palm trees--oh, and the fake snow we can buy in cans to decorate our windows. 

I went to Kinkos last night with my daughter.  She was still working on her class Woman Project, and she had made a "book of her life" including pictures of her immediate family, for her family tree.  She picked some strange pictures of me on purpose.  Great..  She also picked a picture of me and her father together dancing, stating, "This is my favorite picture of the both of you, because it's the only one I could find where the both of you look truly happy."  Only one picture.. Hmm..  Oh well, at least there is ONE!  Anyway, I was truly impressed by the way the copies of pictures turned out, and I'm now inspired to may be try and make my Christmas cards via Kinkos.  What do you think my chances are to be able to gather all the kids, hubby and I into a group photo?  I will have to check to see if my digital can take a picture automatically--if not, I will have to ask the neighbor, or the cat to take the picture.  Wish me luck! 

My dream is to get a PROFESSIONAL picture taken of all of us..  I don't know if that will fly or not with everyone.  No one really likes getting their picture taken, other than my diva daughter.  The idea of getting all together in matching colored outfits, as one big happy family does sound wonderful.  But..  I may have to settle with a picture taken at home by the cat. 

Today I'm leaving early from work so I can take a test for another job.  No one knows, but, it really isn't a big deal.  I'm not ready to move jobs right now, but I do want to get myself on a hiring list soon, so when I am ready (in about 2 years) I will be somewhere on a list for consideration.  Wish me luck. 

                                                

Have a Glorious Day People... :)

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

Hello, Tuesday/Identity Crisis

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Well, I wrote a whole big entry yesterday afternoon, but, after I pressed the SAVE button, it went to a blank screen---connection lost...  Errr...  I was so peeved, I didn't feel like going back to retype the whole thing again, so I didn't. 

Yesterday was a cold, and rainy day.  I had some errands to run with my mother, and I didn't start work until later that morning, and I missed getting my cup of coffee--which threw me way off from my morning routine.  It's weird, but if I don't have that one cup of coffee, it throws me off, and I just don't function well for some reason.  I can't have more than one cup, but that cup--really gets me on track.  I know it's weird, but I was so out of it.  I didn't want to walk out in the rain to get my coffee, and I didn't want to drive anywhere either.  I did go to the drug store, and forgot to buy the one item that I needed the most, diapers.. (yes, Nicholas is still NOT potty trained), but I managed to buy other things like tomato soup, a random Christmas mug, and cocoa-hoping it would replace my urge for the coffee.  Well, it didn't work, because I wanted to wash my mug, and with all the pee testing of clients that is done in our building bathroom, the thought of cleaning the mug in there in that smelly bathroom, made me want to forget the whole entire idea altogether. Weird how that happens.  I had my tomato soup, and that worked, but it didn't stop me from going through the Taco Bell Drive Thru and get nachos--evil nachos..

However, today, is a sunshine day!!  Hoorah!!  It's a little chilly, but I can take the chill, I just HATE driving in the rain.  I hate driving in the rain, in the dark with a passion.  Last night, was not fun driving through the mountains.  I can do rain during the day, but at night--it's just not my cup of tea.  Way too many people drive too fast, or too slow, and you never know what might be jumping out of the woods suddenly--like a deer. or a raccoon or a skunk..who knows, even a bear.  It freaks me out when I see a number of dead wild animals out there on the side of the road.  It's almost as scary as finding cowsstanding there on the highway---yes, it happens.  It happened to me one evening in the Azores, Portugal.  Not one cow, but TWO cows just standing there on the slow lane.  Two cows, and then later, a very large rat racing across the street in front of me--all equally scary, meriting a very loud scream.  I won't even mention the day of the flying white crane birds that once flew over my car.  Now that was SCARY..  One day, while driving by the ocean, a big wave hit my car--now that however, was kinda cool!

My daughter is busy doing her Women of Color History class, and she sat me down last night with lots of questions about how my parents, and how I was raised...etc..  She wanted birth dates, of her grandparents, her father and mine..etc..  I think she knows quite a bit already about how I was raised, what I was expected to do in life-culturally wise, so she didn't ask too many questions.  I don't know how descriptive she is going to be to the class, that is her decision.  She is only 18, and most of the other women in her class are older, who have had more experiences in life, and although, my daughter is Portuguese, it is automatically assumed that she is Italian, simply because her last name looks Italian.  Her main problem so far is the way people tend to spell her name wrong.  Her last name is Vicente, but people want to spell it Vincente, or people want to pronounce it : VICHENTE.  One of her former teachers in high school tried to correct her by saying.  "Well, you have been pronouncing your name WRONG your entire life."  That is irritating.  The correct way to pronounce it, in Portuguese is "VEE CENT"  the pronouncing of the E at the end is optional--I pronounce it so it's easier to recognize, but usually, it's silent in correct Portuguese.

  I mean, there is nothing wrong with being Italian--I have always been assumed to be Italian myself.  In school, I wasn't dark enough to be labeled as "Hispanic", and through my friends whom are Hispanic, the will correct me right away and say that I am NOT Hispanic.  Okay..  We are Portuguese.  We could be labeled as "Latin" I suppose, or Mediterranean.  But there is always that comment that ALWAYS comes up,  "But, you don't LOOK Portuguese.."  Hell, what does Portuguese LOOK LIKE?  Please tell me.  There is no real clear description--it depends on where you live.  If you live in the Azores, you may have people with light hair and more pale skin--you might have light colored eyes, or you may have olive colored skin, and dark eyes, and hair.  On the main land, if you live up North, you may look Basque, more to the South, you may have darker skin..  You may live in Africa, and have black skin, or Indian..you may even be considered Asian...  We are all over.  I hate labels--I really do. 

Okay, time to decorate my boss' office for a baby shower.  Thank God it's not for me!!

Friday, November 10, 2006

Happy Veterans Day

It was great not having to pile the kids early this morning and take them to school, or go to work today!!  YIPPEE!!  I was also able to do some chores, and go to the grocery store, where it was nice and not busy--very unlike it always is on Saturday mornings!! 

It's easy to forget that today is a day set aside to honor our Veterans, and those who have fallen for our country.  Whether you are against it or for U.S's occupation in Iraq, our children, our fathers, our mothers, our sisters, or brothers are there to protect our freedoms. 

Today, I remember, of course my father who served in the U.S. Army in Korea, and my Uncle John, who also served in the U.S. Army during WW II in Germany--he did not return the same person.  Unfortunately, he passed away years before I was born.  I also remember my husband, who served in the U.S. Navy, serving in Cuba--(he didn't get the day off).  And, I also remember my niece, Kassandra--she is in the U.S. AirForce stationed in Italy. 

I hope you all have a great 3 day weekend, but please think of our military.  Say a prayer, or light a candle, or a write a letter.  Pray for peace! 

Wednesday, November 8, 2006

Nick is THREE

Here are some pictures from Nicholas' big day... 

I cannot believe he is 3 already!! 

Call me kooky, but I swear he is "older".  His vocabulary has expanded almost over night!  It's weird.  When did this little baby turn into a little boy?!

Nicholas was born early, just after midnight three years ago on November 5th.  He came a few days early before his due date.  Perhaps he "knew" that November 7th was his Aunt Karen's birthday and that she wouldn't be working that day.  Whatever the reason, he decided to make a special early appearance right when his Aunt Karen started her shift at the hospital. 

Earlier that evening, I was shopping at Target with my mom and my daughter.  We were searching for unsalted saltine crackers (I know that doesn't make sense) for my mom, but we couldn't find any.  It was late, and we thought about checking out Walmart, but being new in this town, I couldn't find it.  Good thing we went home instead, otherwise my water would have broken on the Walmart aisle. 

Rich drove me back to Santa Cruz late into the night, over the hills and through the woods to the hospital, while mom stayed home with Liz and Andrew.  It had been storming outside, but the evening was clear, with no rain. 

Nicholas couldn't have picked a better night to be born. 

I only have one regret about it all.  I only wish my father was here to see his youngest grandson.  I know he is somewhere looking down, watching all the havoc around here.  The year previous I was mourning my father's passing, and now, as if by magic, I was celebrating a new addition to our family.  Strange how things work themselves out..  I'm always amazed by it. 

Tuesday, November 7, 2006

They Call Him The Streak...

My husband's parents, who are visiting from Arizona had the pleasure of being alone with Nicholas for about a hour yesterday morning.  Let's just say they were exhausted, and ready to say goodbye..

Apparently, Nick locked himself in our bedroom, and once Grandpa Dave coaxed him into unlocking the door, he proceeded to chase Grandma Bobbie around the house with a flashlight. 

A few hours later, Nicholas remembered the fun he had earlier that day, and decided to run around the house with the flashlight in the nude. 

The flashlight is now hidden. 

What's In a Name

I am borrowing this from over at Bad Altitude, AND Carpe Diem - Seize the Day

Taking the letters of your first name and describe your life!

Okay...

J - Jingling Jelly (Umm...that is what my kids call me sometimes--not my favorite description of myself however, Joyous, Juvenile, and Jumpy.

U - Understanding, Under estimated, Uncontrolable, & Utterly Undescribely Silly, & Un-noticed

L - Loving wife, mom, daughter & sister, & Lovely--(my favorite word), Loyal Friend, Lovable Loopy--sometimes Loud.

I - Intense, Incredibly patient (sometimes), Incredibly sincere and dedicated.

E - Extreme, Elated, Excellently content, but "Evil".

 

 

Monday, November 6, 2006

Positive Thoughts

      Picture from Hometown My older son is home from school..  He is suffering the usual allergy symptons that my daughter has.  She however went to school.  To tell you the truth, I didn't get much sleep either.  Lizzy worked from 7:30 until 1 am last night, getting the store floor ready for the holiday shopping.  I was sleeping soundly until the phone rang at a quarter to 1, but afterwards, I just couldn't get back to sleep.  I kept hearing my son getting up at night, and my youngest was tossing and turning..  I should know better not to throw a party on a Sunday expecting to be all bright and chiper the next morning... 

The weekend was fun..  Lots of family and friends over to celebrate Nicholas' 3rd birthday.  Of course, there were a few people missing, but, unfortunately there are a few things I have no control over.  And because I want to stay in a positive note, I really shouldn't get into it right now and write about it.  Let's just say it's all "my fault" and get over it.  Yes, life is too short to be playing games, and pointing fingers.  It's also too short to blame all your bitterness, and misfortune, and uncontrolable events on someone.  If it makes you feel better to put someone to blame, instead of yourself, I can take it.   I'm so evil...and one self serving B...tch... (rhymes with Ditch).  I'm so evil, I can't even swear.  I've written, and deleted twice so far in this entry.  I have to walk on egg shells sometimes. 

Christmas is coming, and let's exchange Christmas cards!  I got Lisa Jo's address, and I'm thrilled.  I don't think I've ever gotten a card from Ohio before.  Let's exchange cards---e-cards are so impersonal... :)  Send me an email with your address and lets make the exchange!!  Positive stuff.. 

I do love the holiday season, I just don't like the stress that comes with it sometimes.  I'm not doing the shopping after Thanksgiving route.  No, thanks..  I'll do the Veterans Day thing instead..ha ha ha..  Hopefully my daughter won't be working.  I don't particularly like shopping by myself. 

Okay, sick child is calling my name, and Nick wants to get out of his high chair..  Until later :) 

Friday, November 3, 2006

YOU KNOW YOU ARE LIVING IN 2006 when...

 YOU KNOW YOU ARE LIVING IN 2006 when...  (I got this in an email today at work, and I thought I would share it with you..) 

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 1. You accidentally enter your password on the microwave.

 2. You haven't played solitaire with real cards in years.

 3. You have a list of 15 phone numbers to reach your family of
     three.
 
 4. You e-mail the person who works at the desk next to you.
 
   5. Your reason for not staying in touch with friends and
       family is that they don't have e-mail addresses.
 
   6. You pull up in your own driveway and use your cell phone to
       see if anyone is home to help you carry in the groceries.
 
   7. Every commercial on television has a web site at the bottom
       of the screen.
 
   8. Leaving the house without your cell phone, which you didn't
       have the first 20 or 30 (or 60) years of your life, is now a cause for panic    
       and you turn around to go and get it .
 
   10. You get up in the morning and go on line before getting
          your coffee
 
    11. You start tilting your head sideways to smile.  : )
 
    12. You're reading this and nodding and laughing.
 
    13. Even worse, you know exactly to whom you are going to
          forward this message.
 
     14. You are too busy to notice there was no #9 on this list.
 
     15. You actually scrolled back up to check that there wasn't a
           #9 on this list.
 
   AND NOW  U R  LAUGHING at yourself.
 
 Go on, forward this to your friends - you know you want to
                               
Thanks to D's Designs for the graphic...
 
It's raining here in again.  I actually love rain.  I like walking in it, I like hearing the rain hit the window, I even enjoy watching it falling down, I like singing in it, dancing in it (yes I do that sometimes)  BUT, I HATE driving in it--especially when it's dark outside.  My commute can be kind of scary--there is always an idiot who refuses to slow down on the road.  I'll be driving over the speed limit, in the rain, and there will always be some idiot riding my bumper..  I guess I should just be thankful it isn't snowing. 
 
The EX surprised my kids with a call.  I immediately remembered that he will undoubtly be shoveling snow soon.  Lucky guy. 
 
It's Friday!!  HURRAH!!  I am going to try and make a dent in my shopping for my busy weekend...  Take care and have a fun one!! 
 

Thursday, November 2, 2006

Weekend Assignment #137

Weekend Assignment #137: Recount the first time you voted in a local, state or national election. That's to say the first time your vote counted, not a play vote like Athena's. For this, primary voting counts, too. If you want to share who you voted for and whether they won, that's cool, but if you feel like you want to keep your political affiliation unstated, that's fine too.

Extra Credit: Are you voting next Tuesday?

The first time I voted, was the year I turned 18, and I voted for Jesse Jackson!!!

 

Okay, he didn't win obviously. 

Will I vote this Tuesday..  I'm going to try.  I work a distance from my polling booth, so hopefully I will get home in time to put in my vote.  I missed the deadline to send in my votes in the mail. 

Here in California, we have two "celebrities" on the ballots.  Arnold, "The Terminator" for governor, and Jerry Brown--(You know Linda Ronstadt's old boyfriend).  I'm not quite sure what Jerry in running for, Controller?!  Gee, I obviously need to study before I go vote, huh? 

                           

Thursday Funney

Martha vs.. Maxine  

I got this in an email, and it tickled me..  Thought I would share it.  Don't feel obligated to forward this to anyone...  I don't believe your belly button will drop if you don't.  :) 

                                                                                  


*Martha's Way*
Stuff a miniature marshmallow in the bottom of a sugar cone to prevent ice cream drips.


*Maxine's Way *

Just suck the ice cream out of the bottom of the cone, for Pete's sake! You are probably lying on the couch with your feet up eating it, anyway!

To keep potatoes from budding, place an apple in the bag with the potatoes.

Buy Hungry Jack mashed potato mix , keep it in the pantry for up to a year.

When a cake recipe calls for flouring the baking pan, use a bit of the dry cake mix instead and there won't be any white mess on the outside of the cake.

Go to the bakery! They'll even decorate it for you.

If you accidentally over salt a dish while it's still cooking, drop in a peeled potato and it will absorb the excess salt for an instant "fix-me-up."

If you over salt a dish while you are cooking, that's too bad. Please recite with me the real woman's motto: "I made it and you will eat it and I don't care how bad it tastes!"

Wrap celery in aluminum foil when putting in the refrigerator and it will keep for weeks.

Celery? Never heard of it!

Brush some beaten egg white over pie crust before baking to yield a beautiful glossy finish.

The Mrs. Smith frozen pie directions do not include brushing egg whites over the crust so I don't.

Cure for headaches: take a lime, cut it in half and rub it on your forehead. The throbbing will go away.

Take a lime, mix it with tequila, chill and drink!

If you have a problem opening jars, try using latex dishwashing gloves. They give a non-slip grip that makes opening jars easy.

Go ask that very cute neighbor if he can open it for you.

Don't throw out all that leftover wine. Freeze into ice cubes for future use in casseroles and sauces.

Leftover wine???????????
HELLO !!!!!!!

 

The trouble with bucket seats is that not everybody has the same size bucket.

Do you realize that in about 40 years, we'll have thousands of old ladies running around with tattoos?

Money can't buy happiness -- but somehow it's more comfortable to cry in a Porsche than in a Hyundai.

As usual, if you don't forward this to 10 of your friends within the next 5 minutes, your belly button will fall off.. Really... it's true! Have I ever lied to you?

 

It's November... Already?!

Is it really November, already?!  I am going through denial mode right now. 

Well, I had written a whole entry last night, but, my little guy ran to the computer before I could catch up with him, and he X'd out of the screen and I lost it all.  It was a pretty darn LONG entry as well...  Lovely..  He has been quite the little mischievous one lately.. I'm suspecting it's because of all that extra sugar he has been consuming from all those Halloween treats..

I think I've had a little too much candy corn myself.  The insides of my mouth last night felt as though I had eaten 3 bowls of Captn' Crunch--all raw feeling..  Too much chocolate and candy corn can really do you in.  (Surprisingly, the boys didn't collect too many Dots...the ones that we did get have already been consumed..  I'm the only one in the house who apparently likes candy corn, and this could get dangerous.

Yesterday was particularly stressful--unable to divulge why at the moment however.  I went the healthy route and bought a salad at Wendy's at lunch, and it was HUGE!!  I couldn't consume the whole thing, so I brought it home with the good intention of eating the rest of it for dinner.  Well, that didn't happen.  I finally decided to hide the rest of the candy in places I could not see.  Out of mind, and out of sight.  I think I had candy for dinner.  I think---you see, I don't even remember.  Pretty bad, hey? 

Well, I got home earlier than usual, and I did see the neighbor "Robin" out there busily putting out her Thanksgiving decorations.  She put away the gigantic Halloween globe, the gigantic Halloween blow ups- ghost and witch that was sitting on her roof, and they have been replaced with a giant blow up scarecrow and his giant scarecrow wife--yes she goes all out for the holidays--I can't wait to see what she'll put up for Christmas!  She inspired me to take down my Halloween stuff--my spider web, my pumpkins...my witch wind sock..etc..  I still have my little scare crows on my bench holding their Indian corn and pumpkins..  No blow ups at my house--we are strictly old school, although I will confess I went the lazy route and got a ceramic pumpkin instead carving one.  I just don't have the time, or for that matter, the energy. 

No sign of the Naked Neighbor guy. 

This weekend is going to be particularly busy for me.  My in laws are coming down from Arizona, and my husband's sister and brother are coming down, along with my relatives. My youngest is officially turning 3 Sunday, and no, he isn't completely potty trained yet, but I'M not going to WORRY about that.  He'll poop on the toilet when he is ready.  He slept with us last night, and unfortunately, I woke up with a very stinky baby..  Another reason that too much chocolate is bad...stinky, runny diaper!!! 

I do not like the journal changes--especially the Add Entry...it's too white.  I'm going to go blind!  I shouldn't really be adding an entry today.  I have work literally piled on my desk!  Have a pleasant day, and good luck to those who are in the Vivi's..  I hope you win!   There has been so much drama lately around the Vivi's that personally, I'm glad it's going to be over!!